Okay, God, help me with this….why do You say that I need to forgive others?

It’s never easy to forgive someone who’s wronged you, but we can’t go where God needs us to go, if we keep hanging onto the past. It’s for your benefit, not theirs for you to give it over to God.

How do you become wise….is it through knowledge or from experience?

Life has consequences and we can’t get around that. The question is, what did you gain from it? If you are a better person now because of it, then you have become wiser from your experience.